In the asking, it is always given.
How many times have you wanted something only to give up on it later feeling that maybe it “wasn’t meant to be?” Have you ever had a goal or dream that you have given up on because you felt like life just got in the way?
Most of my clients come to me because there is a part of their life that they feel is missing, or there is a dream that they have let go of and are on a path they never intended. They don’t know how to get a part of themselves back or build up something they have always wanted.
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What is the Law of Attraction?
The Law of Attraction is simply the act of setting your intention and desires and putting them out into the Universe. By stating what you want and need, it will come.
This can sometimes feel uncomfortable for people because it goes against everything we have been taught. The Law of Attraction forces us to give up some of the control we are used to and teaches us to pay attention to the gifts of the Universe and listen to our inner guidance.
The Law of Attraction works most effectively when you follow these three simple steps: Make a Decision, Pay Attention, and Allow It In.
Making a Decision and Setting Your Intention
The Law of Attraction cannot work if we do not state what we want and need first. We must send our intention into the Universe so that the Life Force knows what resources to send us. Your intention can be around anything- money, love, time, health – whatever you feel needs to change. You can use the 5 Pillars of Life to help you get started if you are having trouble identifying what you want.
To set your intention, I encourage all of my clients to create a Vision Statement. This is something you can come back to and revisit if you feel that you are losing sight of your goal or becoming distracted.
Setting a Vision Statement can feel like a daunting task, so I encourage you to set a timer. Give yourself 10-15 minutes to write down what you truly desire. Stop your intellect from negating your aspirations! Dream big and let your heart guide you. Once the timer goes off, read what you wrote and marvel at how your inner-self truly knows what you honestly want to experience next.
After you have set your intention, it is time to open your eyes and heart. The Universe will start to send you the resources that you need in order to learn what you need to learn to make your dreams a reality.
Often we are used to calling these things “coincidences,” but if you pay attention, it is the Universe sending you the people and things you will need, piece by piece, to accomplish your goals.
When the resources are given, you must act. The money will not just appear from the sky. (Actually, it does fall from the sky if you believe it will. I do! And it does.) And my man will tell you I “fell out of the sky.” The perfect guy or girl will not just fall into your lap. The Universe will send you the tools you need to make things happen, and you must be willing to listen and do the work.
Allowing is often the hardest step for most of my clients because it requires letting go of control. We must begin trusting our heart and our gut instead of our head.
This can be tricky at the beginning. You may see that things in your life are disappearing. But that is just the Life Force making space for the new decisions that you have set forth. In order to create room for growth, the things that stand in our way need to be moved aside.
Letting go can sometimes feel uncomfortable. We may even need to grieve the loss of a friendship or relationship that is no longer serving us, but in the end, we must trust that the Life Force is helping us carve a path towards our desires and a fulfilling life. The Life Force will now beckon you forward – strengthening certain skills and personal qualities by introducing “obstacles.” In this way, it prepares you to play at the level of your intended goals.
This is also the point where we can be susceptible to self-sabotage. By talking ourselves out of new opportunities, succumbing to fear of failure, or giving too much to others when we should be taking time for ourselves. All of these things block the gifts of the Universe. As I have mentioned in other posts – what you believe, you receive; what you doubt, you will live without.
By allowing ourselves to listen to our inner guidance and learn from the resources that are sent to us, we can begin to manifest our desires.
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